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Inventive BDSM Christmas Ideas

By: Shayla Moore

BDSM Christmas ideas can be hard to come by for many people. While BDSM is often a part of a persons life, Christmas is not normally a time when you think of kinky behavior. However, that was until now. In all honesty, there are plenty of fun and kinky things that you can do to enhance your BDSM relationship.

Christmas Shopping Fun

Nothing is more fun than seeing your sexy submissive squirm. In fact, watching them squirm in public is even more satisfying especially in that pseudo-sadistic way. You will have the enjoyment of watching your submissive squirm knowing exactly why they are squirming.

If you are wondering how to make them squirm you could use vibrating panties or a butterfly vibrator. Just have your submissive put the panties on, and you can hold onto the remote. Give them a little buzz or a long buzz whenever you feel like it. While the vibrations are quite powerful they are also very quiet. This will ensure that you can flip the switch to turn the vibrator on during lunch or while picking out a Christmas present for family or a friend.

This form of shopping fun is sure to make any submissive melt with desire. Many couples involved in BDSM often experiment with orgasm control and denial. This occurs when the dominant controls and allows the climax that the submissive has. If you are interested in trying this out or working on your technique there is no better place to try it than in public. Chances are, your submissive is going to do everything they can not to have a climax in the middle of the local Walmart or at the grocery store. So, if you are looking for a way to build their self control then this is it.

Bondage, Blindfolds, and Christmas Cookies

Sensation play is one of the most popular activities in BDSM. For those unaware, sensation play is anything that provides physical sensations for the submissive. This is actually an excellent form of play for people that are not into BDSM, as well because you can change the level of play to suit your needs. While some people might use feathers others might consider sensation play to be about bondage and spankings.

For Christmastime we will stray from the spankings, for now, and focus on the unexpected. A fun holiday themed event could take place with your submissive sitting in a bondage chair. These inflatable chairs are great because they come with readymade restraints and you just need to secure the submissive into place. Add a blindfold and your submissive is your own little captive. Now is the time to bring the sensations into play.

While you could spend some time tickling feathers over their body, touching them in various ways, or letting them feel the whip, we have something else in mind when mentioning sensation play. Tonight why not take advantage of the fact that your submissive is tied up and cannot see. With them blindfolded you can let them experience a Christmas feast.

Essentially, anything could be placed in the submissives mouth so what you feed them would be up to you. Of course, as it is Christmas you could try to stick to the common theme. Start with a sugar cookie, some fudge, or fruitcake. Eventually add in something you think they will not be overly fond of. This allows you to see their reaction and it ensures that they know who is in control and that they do not know what to expect.

As the night progresses and your submissive is able to please you it may be time to offer them something else to show your happiness in their behavior and skill as a submissive. Of course, you could also leave them tied up and wanting more as you go about your holiday.

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Shayla Moore is a writer for http://www.oasislingerie.com She has many intresting topics and ideas for all to read about. Check out more of her articles.

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